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The days when most couples got married in a church before heading to a hotel for the reception are long gone and there are many alternatives now available.
Whatever you opt for, just be aware that there are some rules governing where a civil or secular ceremony can be held. Check the requirements at citizensinformation.ie.
If you have the space, tying the knot in your own home can be truly special, and also bring a cosy vibe to a wedding celebration. Beware, however, that being a host brings added responsibility. While a home celebration might also be considered a cheaper option, costs can easily mount up once you factor in hiring furniture, or tents and equipment as well as paying for any outside catering and staff. Also, legally you cannot be married in a private home, so many couples will go to a registry office beforehand. A ceremony can still be conducted at home, just prepare to be flexible in terms of the Irish weather if you are having it outside — has the Infant of Prague failed anyone yet?
The lure of sunnier climes and a beach setting can be hard to resist when it comes to weddings, and going abroad can make for an unforgettable nuptial experience. You can also save money depending on what you go for — although do factor in whether your guests can afford the trip if you are not in a position to subsidise their costs.
You also don’t have to limit yourself to perennial favourites like France, Spain and Italy, with countries such as Croatia and Malta growing in popularity. Don’t rule out a white wedding abroad either — many couples are now opting for the dramatic backdrop of the snowy Alps for their wedding ceremony.
There’s a reason that hotels remain a popular choice for couples — it can eliminate a lot of stress when you hand over responsibility for food, drink, entertainment and accommodation to a well-oiled machine that specifically caters for weddings. Most hotels are also well set up to host a ceremony and reception, which can save a lot of hassle if you are having a big gathering. There’s also flexibility when it comes to numbers, with many hotels happy to host smaller weddings.
Opting for a stately home or country house is guaranteed to bring an air of grandeur to proceedings. Many Irish venues can also be hired for exclusive use which will appeal to those who like their privacy. Antique furniture and old-style decor adds charm while the green areas and manicured gardens of such locations make for the perfect photo opportunity. One for those with a big budget.
For those with an even bigger budget, this is the ultimate option for those who are prepared to push the boat out for the full fairytale experience. The drama and atmosphere don’t need to be conjured up and Irish castles also come with a beautiful rural landscape. A ceremony and celebration in such a setting will result in magical memories that last a lifetime for you and your guests.
For those who prefer an intimate gathering light on fuss and stress, a civil ceremony in a registry office followed by a meal or celebration elsewhere is an easily adaptable option in terms of numbers, scope and expense. It is also good for those who don’t need or want a long lead-in time.
Theatres, galleries, museums, deconsecrated churches, civic and historic buildings — there are many options available for those interested in having their wedding ceremony somewhere more distinctive or personal to their interests. It also allows more freedom in terms of music, readings etc. Secular ceremonies are legally recognised in Ireland if they are carried out by a registered secular solemniser.
If the thought of an Instagram-perfect big bash and everything that goes with it brings you out in hives, something like a barbecue (weather permitting, of course) or a hoedown in your local community or GAA hall might appeal. These are also a great choice for those who love the crafty side of things or are good at getting friends on board to help. You can also make considerable savings with this more DIY approach.
There is still something wonderfully old-fashioned and adventurous about running away to get married. A large family wedding isn’t for everyone, for whatever reason, and heading away on your own to get hitched also rolls a ceremony and a honeymoon into one. For example, did you know you don’t have to be a US citizen to get married in New York City Hall? You can make an appointment to secure a marriage license up to a day before you tie the knot. What could be more romantic than a wedding breakfast in the Plaza Hotel or a post-nuptial stroll through Central Park. It’s hard to beat a Las Vegas wedding for the novelty factor, and getting married in a Chapel of Love by an Elvis impersonator will make for a great story — once your relatives and friends forgive you.
