Christmas brings increased family time and a break from many outside activities. In many ways, this is good and something we all can benefit from. Still, if you are a teenager, when the hub of your social and emotional development is moving away from family and towards friends and the outside world, this can be a very intense time.
Effective structure requires planning. You say that you will all be at home for Christmas week, so it is essential you build in time out of the house. I would suggest you rotate the child you are taking out so that everyone gets a break from each other during the week.
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