- Avoid immediately judging people you perceive as having it all together or having many other parents to talk to. We make quick judgements within seconds. This can be connected to our own insecurity. We take a dislike to another parent — and then listen to information that seems to confirm our opinion. Sometimes it’s hard to change our first impression, but your first impression might be wrong.
- Know you’re not alone when feeling uncomfortable. A lot of parents can feel uncomfortable at times at the school gate. Consider that the parent you think has it all together might also have awkward moments.
- Remain open. The power of the smile is huge. Having open body language is huge. Someone joins you when you’re [in the middle of] a conversation with another parent — don’t exclude them because they’ve inadvertently walked into your conversation.
- Be kind. Be open to small interactions — micro-interactions can be pleasant. Nobody needs to become your best friend. If we could all have a tiny interaction with someone standing on their own at the school gate, how would that help?